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Becky's Home Page


"The Real Life Test" -
A True Autobiography


Hormones and Heart Disease
Update 2002


A List of Therapists Who Treat
Transgendered Persons


State - By - State Instructions
For Changing Name And Sex
On Birth Certificate


Topics Related to


Lefty: A Short Story


Parallel Lines: A Tribute 


Say It Loud!
I'm T and I'm Proud


 Christmas Messages

1998: Christmas Remembered
1999: What's In A Date?
2000: Peace On Earth
2001: Dark Days
2002: The Little Things
2003: Shop Till You Drop
2004: Survivor
2005: What Are You Waiting For?
2006: Peace In Our Heart
2007: The Greatest Of These


Real Life:
Five Years Later

Five Years as Becky

Janice Raymond and

A Christmas Message

Honk If You Love Hillary

Butterflies In Borneo

Jambalaya, Crawfish Pie



Aunt Mildred

Make Me Pretty

There Are No Chance Encounters

What's In A Date?

The Angst At The End
Of The Holiday

What Now? "Six Years"?


The Grace Letters

Answered Prayers
One Day At A Time

Self Discovery
Strength Through Weakness


Play It As It Lays
The Way We Weren't

Share It Or Bear It

I'm Not One Of Them

What Have We To Fear?
God Don't Make No Junk

Work It Out!
What's In A Date?

Life In The Leper Colony

I Love You IF...

Homeland Security

One Thing I Know
Letting Go

The Least Of These

Will...or Grace?
The Word

What Plank?

Believing The Lie
The Greatest Of These


Spiritual Topics


Medical Subjects


Becky's Recipes


Facial Plastic Surgeons


"Feminization of the Transsexual"
Douglas K. Ousterhout,
M.D., D. D. S.


Links to Other Sites




Transsexual Roadmap

This is where I first learned about Dr. Ousterhout!

Andrea James has the most complete "one stop shop"
on the Web for transition related issues.
Several items of current interest are highlighted:
DeepStealth, an educational and entertainment
content site from Andrea and Calpernia Addams;
Information about V-Day LA 2004; and of course the
"Categorically Wrong" Bailey-Blanchard-Lawrence

Sections on your mental and physical well being,
as well as the real-world issues of transition,
feature Andrea's own writings as well as links to other comprehensive sites. Don't miss the information
concerning financing transition.

National Center for Transgender Equality

The Washington-based NCTE organization
works tirelessly to advance justice and equality
for all of our community.

Gender Public Advocacy Coalition

The Gender Public Advocacy Coalition (GenderPAC)
works to end discrimination and violence
caused by gender stereotypes
by changing public attitudes,
educating elected officials and
expanding legal rights.

GenderPAC also promotes understanding
of the connection between discrimination
based on gender stereotypes and sex,
sexual orientation, age, race, class.

Lynn Conway

Professor Emeritus of Computer Science
and Electrical Engineering at the University of Michigan

Former research scientist, Xerox PARC, SCI, DARPA

A remarkable, successful woman, with an extensive
Web collection. Be prepared to spend hours
browsing her site.

Positive Thinking Transsexual Women

Karen's pages feature many successful women
not profiled on other sites, and deal with their
life stories in greater depth.


Reources for Trans Youth

Trans Youth Family Allies

TYFA empowers children and families by partnering with educators, service providers and communities, to develop supportive environments in which gender may be expressed and respected. We envision a society free of suicide and violence in which ALL children are respected and celebrated.


A website and mailing list for young transsexuals,
maintained by a dear friend who cares about her
"kids" more than she cares about her own welfare.
And I mean that in the best possible way.


For transgender children, teens,
and their families

Our Trans Children

A printable PDF document from PFLAG
which may help you talk with your parents.

TransProud is the website of OutProud
specific for trans youth. An excellent resource.


A U.K. resource for trans youth and their parents.


LGBT Resource Clearinghouse

Links to many sources, especially spiritual ones,
and over 70 essays by Rachel Miller.

(Orange County Transgender Coalition)


A place for trans women and men to discuss
issues related to parenting.

GenderLife Forum for Transsexual Women


The Empire Strikes Back:
A Post-Transsexual Manifesto

by Sandy Stone

You think I'm tough
on Janice Raymond??

More Organizations

National Transgender Advocacy Coalition


Local Arizona Resource

Arizona Laser, Electrolysis, Skin Care,
and Permanent Makeup

5702 N. 19th Ave 
Phoenix, AZ 85015